tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4970158058179666549.post2782788171199241449..comments2023-05-11T10:43:01.263+01:00Comments on Anuoluwapo's: It's not about the sizeAnuoluwapohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00557506699866995302noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4970158058179666549.post-20249656529759604092015-06-02T08:12:07.848+01:002015-06-02T08:12:07.848+01:00To me, no abuse is worth an excuse. Bad is bad. No...To me, no abuse is worth an excuse. Bad is bad. No other explanation.NaijaLEARNhttp://naijalearn.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4970158058179666549.post-33087901629650828782015-05-24T13:46:19.120+01:002015-05-24T13:46:19.120+01:00All types of abuses in the world is unacceptable t...All types of abuses in the world is unacceptable to me....honestly...even the least which is verbal, doesn't work for me...<br /><br />Lovely post mami..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07844244058817208155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4970158058179666549.post-90171301118101949562015-05-22T09:09:42.959+01:002015-05-22T09:09:42.959+01:00There's the verbal abuse that comes from paren...There's the verbal abuse that comes from parents too especially when comparison among children is made. It isn't just restricted to partners alone but I can imagine why the latter will be worse because this is the partner you are supposed to spend the rest of your living days with.<br /><br />Abuse is terrible, whatever shape it takes. It is also sad that a lot of people are aware still they remain as a result of shame. I don't know if I should cringe in shame for an advice I once gave someone...my best friend have this older couple friend who parted ways as a result of physical abuse. He had been out of work for so long and passed on the frustration to his wife, she got tired and decided to separate from him.<br /><br />My friend and I pleaded with her to reconsider as the husband seemed genuinely remorse but she refused - she knows best. I respect the sanctity of marriage. I truly do but I also detest abuse of any form. Were we wrong to advise her to return to him? Lolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00549140976154776625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4970158058179666549.post-65741652969928401622015-05-21T16:35:47.166+01:002015-05-21T16:35:47.166+01:00Wow. Such a long educative read. I learnt a few th...Wow. Such a long educative read. I learnt a few things here. Keep it up. esquirenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4970158058179666549.post-71329169302717615302015-05-21T13:19:37.778+01:002015-05-21T13:19:37.778+01:00Abuse should not be accepted in any way, shape or ...Abuse should not be accepted in any way, shape or form. If you are in an abusive relationship, please exit fast. Your well being is more important than an abusive partner who could get you killed in the end. <br />Thanks for sharing! Blogorattihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12821621371176285384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4970158058179666549.post-50276996808198082792015-05-21T04:04:25.441+01:002015-05-21T04:04:25.441+01:00He transferred his anger unfairly on her. He shoul...He transferred his anger unfairly on her. He should never have consented to his in-law's "conditions"<br /><br />I'm glad that you're not only in a happy place but also an inspiration to meAnuoluwapohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00557506699866995302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4970158058179666549.post-82511692478494274812015-05-21T03:29:37.099+01:002015-05-21T03:29:37.099+01:00Anuoluwapo, I agree a man or a woman can be abused...Anuoluwapo, I agree a man or a woman can be abused... my ex husband was emotionally abusive... it started out with little things I should not have tolerated and escalated over the couple if years we were together. Finally I found my way out and left him... it was a good day...<br /><br />I understand the first story about the man spending all his money for a wife... I don't understand him beating her.... he should be mad at her parents but he should not havr attacked her.<br /><br />It's sad that both men and women suffer in abuse for the fear of ridicule and blame... no one should blame anyone if you have not walked in their shoes...<br /><br />Very good post :-)Launna https://www.blogger.com/profile/09447311902825477772noreply@blogger.com