Saturday, 31 January 2015

Bedmatics 103: Physical attraction

You all know I'm a JJC in this area right? :D So I have a question. Is it possible to love someone enough to want to marry him/her and yet not be physically attracted to him/her? I'm patiently waiting to read from you.

In other news, love hampers, for valentine, birthdays,.., are still selling. Don't only get for your babes and bobos, get for your siblings and folks.


Which of my bloghearts will be my unofficial valentine? Love love, Anuoluwapo.
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7 comments:

  1. Esquire31 January 2015 at 20:47

    Yes, it is possible to love someone and want to marry him/her even though you are not physically attracted to the person BUT its not advisable to that.

    You can meet someone who is embodied with all the qualities you need in a spouse but once there is no physical attraction, the relationship really hardly lasts because the lack of attraction usually causes a strain in the relationship.

    For example: A man meets a lady who has everything he dreams about in a lady but he has a challenge with her appearance, maybe she is a little too overweight, plain looking, i shaped or wateva repulses him. They could be good friends but this will take a toll on thier sexual life. He would hardly touch her in bed.

    From experience, i had a female friend who was excellent, wife material and all that but i really wasnt physically attracted to her one bit. We were good friends. She came to my house severally, she even spent her weekends at my house a couple of times, slept on the same bed but i was never moved oh. sex never even crossed my mind. sometimes she wore just panties and bra and and walked around the house but i would not feel anything.

    I said to my self, If i marry this one, walahi i may be ready for big trouble.

    That is my take on this. God bless.

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  2. ire1 February 2015 at 00:11

    I would think physical attraction comes first. You like the outside. Meet and love the inside

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  3. Riike1 February 2015 at 00:52

    Me sef be jjc

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  4. Toinlicious9 February 2015 at 10:54

    Physical attraction is important biko. You don't want to be tempted on a daily by other people who you are sexually/physically attracted to

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I refuse to be biased and judgemental. I look at issues from both sides of the coin, form my conclusions and allow you do same. Hopefully we can put ourselves straight in love.
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