Saturday, 4 October 2014

Story of the ex

It amuses me when girls talk about their exes whether negatively or positively? Why are you so bitter?  Why do you miss his behind? Perhaps because it's familiar? You don't want familiar, you want better. You want one that treats you right and appreciates you.There is a reason you didn't work out. I'm sorry you were heartbroken. Be upset, cry for a day or two and then please, wipe your tears. You're not the first or the last to be hurt. Get yourself together, get over the hurt and re-package. If it's over, it never happened, yea? No?

It's rather sad hearing girls say they've given up on love/guys, into chics now or depressed. The ones that commit suicide ehn? Or the ones that make stalking the guy's life their primary assignment, hurting the new babe or doing jazz? People have time gidi gan.

So if a relationship isn't working or is dead, don't try reviving it if you don't want the same old in your future. If you can't live with it, don't go back to it. If he didn't treat you right then, why would he now? Yes, he has realized his mistakes, seemingly sorry, can't stop crying and his ancestors are on your case? It could be very tricky. Take time to be rational and be very sure it's what you want. It wouldn't hurt to speak to your mom, someone you're sure has your mom or get some counselling.

I'm sorry I was away. You don't want to know how stressful the week has been. Thanks for the harassment, lol. I had been writing this piece for over a month. Wasn't sure about it. Still not sure but thought to publish it. I hope it makes sense to a blogheart. Thanks for reading. Much love, Anuoluwapo
Lol! It's never this serious




8 comments:

Esquire said...

eeeiyaaaaa. pele Barr Anu. Dont be too stressed for us oh. The article is very ok. You ve passed the message very well.

what of guys whose hearts were broken too? its not only ladies with broken hearts. I remember my heart was broken sha sometime. after about 2 to 3yrs we met again in another city and she tried getting back but i just felt it wasnt worth it even though i was was still very much singe then.

Barr Anu. i hope you kept my share of all those delicious menu menu. i wont hear story when i come around oh.

Anuoluwapo said...

E like ounje.lol. I made ayamase/ofada sauce few weeks back, would put it up.

It applies to both sexes. I believe "If you're happy and you know it, thank your ex" is talking to you

Anonymous said...

The "EX" should be in ur past abeg cos even in some cases where the separation was mutual, the continued association with d ex would hurt ur new relationship. There is a reason it just didn't work out in the first place like Anu said. Let them "EX" go!

Anuoluwapo said...

Thank you

Anonymous said...

Yes o, if it's over, it never happened

Anuoluwapo said...

Abi na

ire said...

On point

Anuoluwapo said...

Thank you Ire