Saturday, 13 December 2014

When daddy cheats on mommy

I often hear people say "I would never tell my friend her boyfriend is a cheat. I wouldn't even tell my sister her hubby sleeps around. I can't be the reason a marriage would break down. If I catch my dad sef, i'll rather blackmail him than tell my mom."

I also wouldn't want to be the cause of a break u. Isn't the cheat who couldn't keep his/her vows the cause? Is friendship only about the good times? What should a good friend/sister/daughter do? I read of someone who was upset and at a loss on what to do when she found out that her friend's husband was having an affair with her friend's twin.

Speaking with the cheat could be an option which could boomerang by the time he talks to the spouse. You could even tell your friend who would forgive the spouse and make you an enemy.

I don't know what I would do. I pray it doesn't happen to us. What would you do? Have you been in that situation? What did you do? Would you have your friend tell you or be quiet about it?

Thanks for reading bloghearts. I hope to read from you. Sure you had a good birthday blogheart Ayomide. Have a year as sweet as you are. Love, Anuoluwapo.

13 comments:

Esquire said...

Its a sensitive issue, however i suggest that a peace talk be made with the cheating partner with the motive to get him to change from the act. making him know that if you see or catch him again, u will let the cat out of the bag.

as much as possible do what you can to help the cheating husband realise he is not doing the right thing, but if he turns deaf ears and continues perpetually in the act then u do the needful. my opinion sha

Anonymous said...

Stumbled on your blog, love it

Anonymous said...

Stumbled on your blog, love it

Ire said...

Iyo o se tu danu, iso o se ponla. Confused.com

Riike said...

I guess we should help/be there but with Caution. I'll love to be told actually

Riike said...

I guess we should help/be there but with Caution. I'll love to be told actually

Eniwealth said...

No,I didn't tell and won't tell. Yes, I've caught one or two spouses.
If I will wanna be told? Yes and No.I'll let you decide. But if you ever decide to tell me, you ''best'' be sure you got your facts right.

Anuoluwapo said...

Thank you

Anuoluwapo said...

Thanks

Anuoluwapo said...

Lmao. Thanks Ire

Anuoluwapo said...

Thank you

Anuoluwapo said...

Lol! Thanks babe

Anuoluwapo said...

Thanks