Saturday, 31 January 2015

Bedmatics 103: Physical attraction

You all know I'm a JJC in this area right? :D So I have a question. Is it possible to love someone enough to want to marry him/her and yet not be physically attracted to him/her? I'm patiently waiting to read from you.

In other news, love hampers, for valentine, birthdays,.., are still selling. Don't only get for your babes and bobos, get for your siblings and folks.

Which of my bloghearts will be my unofficial valentine? Love love, Anuoluwapo.


Esquire said...

Yes, it is possible to love someone and want to marry him/her even though you are not physically attracted to the person BUT its not advisable to that.

You can meet someone who is embodied with all the qualities you need in a spouse but once there is no physical attraction, the relationship really hardly lasts because the lack of attraction usually causes a strain in the relationship.

For example: A man meets a lady who has everything he dreams about in a lady but he has a challenge with her appearance, maybe she is a little too overweight, plain looking, i shaped or wateva repulses him. They could be good friends but this will take a toll on thier sexual life. He would hardly touch her in bed.

From experience, i had a female friend who was excellent, wife material and all that but i really wasnt physically attracted to her one bit. We were good friends. She came to my house severally, she even spent her weekends at my house a couple of times, slept on the same bed but i was never moved oh. sex never even crossed my mind. sometimes she wore just panties and bra and and walked around the house but i would not feel anything.

I said to my self, If i marry this one, walahi i may be ready for big trouble.

That is my take on this. God bless.

ire said...

I would think physical attraction comes first. You like the outside. Meet and love the inside

Riike said...

Me sef be jjc

Anuoluwapo said...

That's a new one. Thank you

Anuoluwapo said...

I share this opinion

Anuoluwapo said...

Makes two of us :d

Toinlicious said...

Physical attraction is important biko. You don't want to be tempted on a daily by other people who you are sexually/physically attracted to

Anuoluwapo said...

Yes please