Friday, 15 August 2014

3 boyfriends in a year, wants a hubby

How are you doing Anu? I love you and your thought process. I'll love your opinion on this. I've known a babe for a year. She is beautiful, focused and very funny, in a razz way. But that doesn't really matter because she lights up a room and turns sad to happy. The problem is in the one year I've known her, she has had at least 3 "serious" relationships. She is close to 30 and desperate for marriage. She says yes to every guy and double dates like a pro. Now she is talking marrying my brother. I am totally against it. What do you think? Leave me as an anon pls.

Hello. I'm good, thanks. What I would do in your shoes is to let my brother know my concerns. I'll most likely tell him everything in her presence so it won't seem like bad belle or I'm being an hypocrite. It would then be up to my brother to decide whether to go on or not. It's not like I would be involved in their marriage or anything. Thanks for writing in and I hope I was of help. Hopefully, some bloghearts would share their wisdom with us. 

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11 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think Anu has said it all however, I would suggest u talk to ur brother alone & not in the babe's presence. Trust me, u don't want her to be there cos u'd most probably not wanna hurt her with ur words and u don't wanna be d babe who made her lose her 'relationship'. Talk to ur bro and let him decide. Don't be in d middle as u do so pls. Best of luck while u are at it.

Anuoluwapo said...

Thank you. I just felt I would want to be straight with her too

Faith Adesua said...

Well I think I agree with the patt about telling your brother alone reason being if they eventually patch things up and get married she may nurse some animosity towards you into the future....which you frankly dont need. In telling your brother though you should advise him to deal with the matter maturely I.e not be confrontational with the lady but discyss the matter in love. ...afterall he must love her to propose marriage in the first place.....and who knows if she was honest and open to your brother she may have disclosed this to him already (which should be the case if the relationship is truly headed in the right direction....openness about your present and past).....ok I think I have said enough.

Anuoluwapo said...

Thank you :*

Esquire said...

I suggest same with above comments. Share your concerns with your brother alone. pray for God's intervention and direction for your brother and allow them.

Anuoluwapo said...

Thank you

Eniwealth said...

I would do everything Anu suggested except talking to my brother in her presence. Anu you have double confrontational abilities I can tell. LOL. I'd talk to my brother alone and let him decide. Her saying yes to every suitor is obviously an act of desperation, babe just wants to nail just anybody to get off the market and for that, I blame her. Let your brother be her judge, God help him.
Additionally, if you don't mind getting your FBI shades on, do some background home work on her and be sure, it's just your brother this time. Good luck, to you, your brother and the lady in question.
I'm not sorry for the long comment Anu.

Anuoluwapo said...

Lol at double confrontational abilities. It wouldn't be a confrontation and she'll know that I have nothing against her. + i'll also be telling her to be sure that he's the one. I wouldn't respect an in-law I heard advised my hubby against me and smiles at me

Anonymous said...

Thanks everyone

Anuoluwapo said...

Anytime ma'am

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