Saturday 13 September 2014

Wife or maid?

Hi Anu, what's up with you? Nice blog. I have a quick silly question my friends and I have been debating. Who should wash the hubby's boxers? Wife or maid? Thanks babe. Ire

Lol! Lol! Lol! Really? Lol! So, why is the one who wears the boxers not in the scenario?  If it's between the wife and the maid, I definitely think the wife should. I should add that I don't think marriage is still "daddy reading the papers while mommy slaves away in the kitchen." Husbands gladly help around the house more now.  Ideally, dirty underwear should not be piled. With that being said, I think hubby should wash his underwear after each wear. It's just one piece so what's the fuss and debate about.

I however do not see it weird or shameful to wash your spouse's underwear if you want to. It's perfectly okay to help out occasionally or even everyday. It's the hubby making it the wife's chore that I don't subscribe to, it makes it a bore. Asking whether it's the wife or maid's chore seems to me like some wives aren't excited about it. At the end of the day, it's up to you, your hubby and whatever rocks your boat.

I'm doing very well Ire, thanks for asking. You?

Dear bloghearts, what do you think? Thanks for reading. Tayo sent a yummy piece in, you don't want to miss it. See you on Monday? Much love, Anuoluwapo.

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Maid is a no no

Anonymous said...

How about who washes the wife's bras?

Anuoluwapo said...

Thanks

Anuoluwapo said...

The gateman? Lol

Anonymous said...

I like how he put it 'silly question' so I guess it's just for laughs. However I find it selfish for a man to expect his wife to wash his boxers if he's not sick or disabled. Washing machines come cheap these days so go get one to wash ur dirty boxers abeg and by d way I am a guy but I would never ask my wife to do it.

Esquire said...

I think Barrister Anu has done justice to the question.

Anuoluwapo said...

:D Thank you

Anuoluwapo said...

Thank you

Eniwealth said...

How come I am just seeing this?! Hian! Yes we are Africans but then, how nah, why make a fuss out of who does the washing? To me, I feel it all boils down to marrying your best friend in the first place. Like Anu said, why pile it in the first place?! If by chance I find DFHs' undies in the bathroom, I'll gladly wash it but trying to instigate me to do the washing like its' my duty might loosen one or two screws in my head, hence the reason he has to be my best friend first, so that the screws will mostly be securely tight and well bolted.
It's even about the maid and mummy here, how about your uncle making you wash his undies under the guise of ''I'm like a father to you''. Hence it's perfectly okay for me to see the drools*. When even father does his own washing without involving even mum?
People should be more considerate abeg!
Anu I've done the epistle again and I'm not sorry.

Anuoluwapo said...

Exactly!! Lmao, no joor. Your comments make me smile. I was laughing sef until I got to d Uncle part. Uncle must be a joker