Wednesday, 26 November 2014

Older guy Vs Younger guy

I ran into an old classmate who went on about how we girls are getting married and not giving them face. I told him his future wife is probably in Primary 5 or JSS2. He didn't find it funny but I had a good laugh. This leads me to the Older guy Vs Younger guy talk.

In my next post i'll talk about some of the reasons girls don't go for their age mates. Today I want to know what age difference between partners is okay by you, and a reason if any.

Thanks for reading. I hope you'll share your thoughts. Anuoluwapo

16 comments:

Esquire said...

In my opinion the age difference between couples vary from persons to persons especially if the basic ingredients in marriage are present, however in all we do we have to apply wisdom and do things in moderation considering the other party involved.

The generation gap is the accepted number of years between one generation and another generation. This has been said to be 5 years. If the age difference between a man and his wife is not more than 5yrs then it means they are withing the same generation. if it is more than 5 yrs and less than 10yrs it means they are 1 generation gap away from each other. (two different generations). each generation has a lot perculiar to them and the ability to deal with such lies on your partner. for example a lady of 25yrs old looking at options of a 19yr old guy, a 25yr old guy, a 31 yr old guy and a 49yr old daddy is critical to understand. these guys are found in different generations apart and would definitely behave in like manner. its only one in a million that may act a different age.

The Choice is ours. Choose wisely and prayerfully.



marilyn said...

Loool...anu I just bumped into ur blog. .nice one darling. ..well am of the opinion that the older the better. ..my hubby should be about 10 years or more older than I am. .maturity wouldn't be far fetched ( except he is been followed from his village ). .....lool

Eniwealth said...

gbamest gbam for your comment Esquire.I don't think I'd want to marry someone above 10 years older than I am and nothing less than at least four years older.

Anonymous said...

The age difference in a relationship is healthy especially in cases where the guy is older .it used to b the in thing in the good old days and that's one of d reasons many of our parents stay married. A lady thinks that a guy her age is just as matured as she is so they want a more matured guy.

Ire said...

Age is nothing but a no

Riike said...

I'm with Ire. There are women happily married to men they are older than

Riike said...

I'm with Ire. There are women happily married to men they are older than

Anuoluwapo said...

Lmao at "except he is been followed from his village." He has to be followed if he is 10yrs older than I am with no sense. I'm with you on the 10yr ish. Thanks :*

Anuoluwapo said...

Survey somethings :d Thanks Esquire

Anuoluwapo said...

I think my mom shares this view. Talking about the likelihood of having similar interests and relating better. Thanks Eniwealth :*

Anuoluwapo said...

I think girls are more matured than guys their age. Even as babies, we usually crawl ,walk, talk, reach puberty faster

Anuoluwapo said...

Yes! Age was never one of my considerations. Thanks :*

Anuoluwapo said...

I'm not sure but I guess many of them have issues later on. Thanks :*

Ayomide Olubiyi said...

This age difference thingy can be a very delicate issue. There are some much older yet immature men, whose vision, mission n purpose is to make life miserable for their wives. I have also met younger guys who can see far beyond their years. I believe age doesn't really matter, find someone who shares the same principles as you and start from there.

Anuoluwapo said...

Yes but rare, atleast in this part of the world. Thank you :*

Anuoluwapo said...

You're on point dear. Thanks