Saturday, 29 November 2014

Older guys Vs Younger guys 2

Okay so we don't wait for you guys maybe because we grew up together and many of you seem like brothers. We've seen you in all your elements, before you knew all about swag and class, with catarrh all over your face. Yea yea, you've seen us with our dresses stained, so what? So anyways, the friendzone is real :p

Okay, so even if you happen to escape from the strong walls of friendzone. After university, the world doesn't let us finish NYSC before they start with their silly interrogatory pleasantaries. "So how is your boyfriend?" "Awon uncle nko?" "Your bobo is taking care of you oh" "Oh girl, you have a wife glow. Something happening soon?" "Did you see Yemi's wedding photos?" Do I need to go on? You can't post a photo online in peace without a stupid "Aunty go and marry" comment. You don't believe? Go check Linda Ikeji and Genevieve Nnaji's pages. After masters and age 26? The pressure is real. An average guy your age isn't ready at 26. Some may not be ready until their mid or late thirties. And if you decide to wait for your high school or college sweetheart, you get harrassed by photos of weddings, babies, dps saying "my husband is the best." Thanks to the society, a lot of ladies can not wait. Love or no love, it's #FastestRouteToTheAltar

Then we see Aunty Tunrayo and Sis Grace who were dumped by their high school and college sweethearts at ages 29 and 33 because their exes had met fresh blooded 21 and 22year olds who tickle their fancy. 8 years on, they are still the subject of every family prayer meeting. No girl wants to be in their shoes. They can't afford to wait only to be dumped. So they leave the guy they love so much for the fastest
 way to the altar.

Oh, most of these guys are jerks with all the youthful exuberance in their bloodstreams. Girls mature faster. At 26, a Friday evening indoors, cooking, eating, dancing, cuddled up infront of the tv, is more fun than bars and clubs. An older guy, who is more likely to be done with that, knows how to treat a woman from his experiences and ready to settle down. He doesn't have time for petty arguments/fights.

Also, sometimes it's easier to submit to the authority of a older guy than a younger one. I should not fail to mention that some ladies are swayed by the freebies they get from working class men.

If you want that girl, you need to grow up fast, get your priorities right and treat her well. Or stop nagging :p Thank you for reading. :* :* :* Anuoluwapo

P.S. When I say older guy, I don't mean aristos, sugar daddies. I'm also not canvassing for older guys. This post talks on some of the reasons babes go for older guys. Maybe we can debate which is better soon.

17 comments:

Ire said...

Lol at #fastest route to the altar

Anonymous said...

U've done justice to the topic. Girls actually mature faster than guys their age

Riike said...

No be lie

Anuoluwapo said...

:d thanks

Anuoluwapo said...

Thanks

Anuoluwapo said...

Thanks

Ayomide Olubiyi said...

so true. I've missed your blog o, being offline for a while so I'm doing a binge of Anuoluwapo's n enjoying every bit of it. Good job

Anuoluwapo said...

Yaaay! My motivator finally gets to comment. Thanks for the love babe

Anonymous said...

true...maturity for most guys starts at 30!

Anuoluwapo said...

Thank you :*

ade emjay said...

True talk aunt...... but when love is true and strong with no lies or hidden motives , our "college sweethearts" can go all the way

ade emjay said...

Thank God you said "most" :/

Anuoluwapo said...

:d

Anuoluwapo said...

Yes!!

Ayomide Olubiyi said...

you sure know how to enlarge a fellow's head...#kisses

Anuoluwapo said...

:*

Duru Adolphus Jnr. said...

Hian! Eeezz not a joking sturvz sam sam 0oh! **Sit's down well on Jangolova chair... and i must say that this marriage stuff eezz a real ish.. 1 of my guys at Uni was jolted by his "hand in glove" Uni sweet heart.. who left him to marry an OLDER MORE ESTABLISHED man she had met merely months after graduation.. and this was hard to believe.. I mean ** In Lohla Windfalls voice.. my Flabber was gasted on my Guys behalf... We wey done already dey plan friends to "Men in suit" for the guy.. Only to be the ones giving him morale support in absentia.. kai! Heart Break na bad thing shhhaaa....

Truth Anu.. At 26 yeah... Insha Allah... I will be ready for marriage.. Call me naive and too young to understand.. But i dont think I wanna be jumping up and down like Kangaroo so much at that age.. But like as You said Bubba.. I wont want to end up with my Age mate.. Hell to teh FREAKING No! or my Childhood friend sev.. i would want to end up with a younger Fresh Blood who knows all the new skills and styles.. iKid.. So i guess its same for both genders.. Men want to end up with Women younger so they can be "THE MAN OF THE HOUSE" and women wanna end up with men who are mature enough to say a word and mean it. It is well oh Jari.. To this 23 years 10 months and 21 days old confused Boy abi man ( Biko use ya Church and pick one) its not so much about the age as it is about ending up happy with whosoever.. So my confused advice is; Find someone that makes you happy and stick to the person like Transparent Celotape, Dasaall.. **drops mic. How are You Nne?!