Wednesday, 25 June 2014

What a woman wants naija style

Biodun Ogundeji, one of the sweetest babes I know, wrote in from Port-harcourt. She says she has been a "lowkey" reader. She quickly obliged when I asked if she could write on this, that I'm very grateful for. It's seemingly not a serious topic but has a few things we can pick up. Enjoy!
Every man (eventually) needs a woman in his life. Even the bible ascertains this in Gen 2:18 "Then the Lord God said " It is not good that the man should be alone, I will make him a helper fit for him." Back to the topic of the day " What a woman wants from her man". A woman wants so much yet so little ( that is of cos if you really love her).
First of all, every woman wants a man she can proudly show off to the world. I don't mean physique or facial looks (although a sister doesn't mind a fine man with a banging body.. LOL). Show off in this context refers to an educated gentleman of good character, presentable, hardworking and most of all God fearing. A man who is also pleased to have her as well.
Secondly, we all know every woman is soft hearted no matter how hard or stubborn we are ( I don cast us sha ). This is to remind our men that every gesture towards us has a special place in our hearts and is very appreciated. Remind her about all the great stuff she's made of, thank her warmly when she does something nice for you, chastise her with love, say nice things to her, tell her how beautiful she is and last but definitely not the least, spoil her with treats every now and then (please o, within your budget.. 'Gbese' not allowed). Learn to surprise your woman. Unexpected gifts are one of the most exciting and adorable things you can do for her. Gifts shouldn't only be given on birthdays or anniversaries. It sure goes a long way.
Lastly, we know women are said to be talkatives (definitely not all) but in the long run, we only talk about so much to you because we confide in you and believe you care for us. Please, always give her a listening ear no matter how irrelevant the discussion may seem. Advice her, encourage her, help her grow and develop into a better woman.
I strongly believe that a woman who gets all of these from her man would be nothing but happy and also be the BEST for him as well.

The "gbese" part totally cracked me up. True though, if it's ice cream you can afford, please give her the ice cream jeje. Don't do pass yourself. Ice cream proposal sef dey, put the ring in it and let her find it while taking it. Whether you used ice cream or a private jet, you have proposed and made her happy in the process. It's mostly about the thought and efforts behind it and not necessary the substance. Thank you so much my darling for this piece. In summary we want loyalty, friendship, appreciation and care which may include treats, vacations, (you get the drift right?) and someone who has our back. She couldn't have possibly listed everything we want. These are just the basics. Thanks for reading. Hopefully, we'll have practical tutorials on some fun topics from blog readers soon. Enjoy the plenty pictures. I love you, Anuoluwapo.

Who doesn't want commitments?





I don't care what other guys are like, I just want my man to be very good to me






11 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Anu, this is soo true... Real woman deserves a real man.

Anuoluwapo said...

Yes! Thank you

Anonymous said...

Ts true women want a guy who respects dem buh nwadais women seems too desperate 4 a man dah dey end up settlin 4less, ma own opinion is ds: women shld knw deir worth.. Her right man is prolly out dere n sumday he'll sure show up. So girls dnt go 4money or swag all those sh**tty stuffs wil fade away..jes chill 4him*winks* cheers# #totalwoman

Anuoluwapo said...

Preach! Thank you

Esquire said...

i read with interest enjoyed it, taking note of all the points only to get to the bottom of the article and i saw: THESE ARE JUST THE BASICS. Egbami! Going over the piece i noted about 18 points (and they are just the basics?) Olorun Oba mi. Pls come our rescue oh. The men only had just 4 points as basics oh. Lol

Anuoluwapo said...

1 million points nko? She talked about 3 basics, I added other points while rounding off

Eniwealth said...

Lmao! @ Esquire I thought the exact same thing while reading. Leave us o. Nicely written Biodun. Might I add, I (we) want a man that oozes total sense of security? Thanks

Eniwealth said...

Lmao! @ Esquire I thought the exact same thing while reading. Leave us o. Nicely written Biodun. Might I add, I (we) want a man that oozes total sense of security? Thanks

Anuoluwapo said...

Lol! Thanks babe

Anuoluwapo said...

Lol! Thanks babe

Esquire said...

@ Eniwealth.. no wahala. i understand oh. The men have a lot more work to do. Eniwealth, You even added one more again making 19. na wa oh. and the want list keeps increasing. The Lord is our muscle. We shall overcome in Jesus name.

I am ready for anything and equal to everything through Christ who infuses me with inner strength. Phillipians 4:13 Amplified version.

With this scripture the MEN shall handle every want of yours even if it reach 1miilon. LOL.